I don't regret it. It was shitty, but we learned a lot. We know what to prepare for if we wanted to try again.
[Orla hasn't heard a lot of people agreeing with that sentiment, that trying again might be worth it, but she continues to believe it. It's probably that stubborn, slightly crazy streak that stresses her wife out so much. But she believes it. Maybe once everyone's had more time to cool down.]
Maybe that's a flaw I have. You give me the choice between landing in one place and a chance, even in horrible circumstances, to get on a ship and go, I'll go every time.
Sometimes, yes. I'm pretty good at it, most of the time. It's a skill I've had to develop in my life back home, but this place is so everything happening all the time I can imagine it would be hard to really develop it here.
[There's a pause while she thinks about it for a minute.]
Being fucked with isn't the same as being injured. Being injured isn't the same as being dominated. Being dominated isn't the same as being subjugated. Don't let them become each other.
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
no subject
I don't regret it. It was shitty, but we learned a lot. We know what to prepare for if we wanted to try again.
[Orla hasn't heard a lot of people agreeing with that sentiment, that trying again might be worth it, but she continues to believe it. It's probably that stubborn, slightly crazy streak that stresses her wife out so much. But she believes it. Maybe once everyone's had more time to cool down.]
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
It speaks well of you, that you feel that way.
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
Being fucked with isn't the same as being injured. Being injured isn't the same as being dominated. Being dominated isn't the same as being subjugated. Don't let them become each other.
no subject